I haven't had any coffee all day today.  I have a raging headache!!  This will pass I guess.   I don't like the feeling.  I took some tylenol but it hasn't touched the headache.   To top it off, I have to stay up all night at work.  This is difficult.  Catherine and I are both taking a break from caffeine.  I hate this!  However, it is something I am volunteering to do.  I don't have to do it.  I am choosing to do this.  AHHHHH!!!!!  My head!  Well, I must remember that it does get better.  When I did this before it only gave me a headache for a day or so.  I am almost done with the hard part.  Maybe I could have a cup of coffee to celebrate!  I must admit, I drink coffee for effect and not for taste.  I enjoy water much more, but the coffee gets me goin so to speak.  It gives me energy.  How is that different than when I used to do "other things" to keep me going?   I don't really see the difference.  Maybe because it's easily accesible and a socially acceptable thing to do?  I know I don't want to HAVE to have something to get through the day.  I am at that point with coffee, so I am glad we are doing this...... even though I don't like it.  Sometimes I have to do what I don't want to do, in order to get the desired results I always wanted.  My desired results?  To not be a slave in any way to anything.   I think it will also help me to exersise, and eat good foods.  I enjoy healthy foods, so I don't know why I struggle so with eating right.  I have made myself far heavier than I should be.  No one has done this to me but me.  I am  not pleased to be so overweight.  I need to take better care of myself.  I miss being active as I was when I was younger.   I have a wife who is willing to become more active.  Help me lord to do what needs to be done.   In many ways, I feel so weak.  I am weak but he is strong right?  I'd like to type that I will lose 50 pounds by the end of the year, but I have such little confidence in my ability to come through on such a promise.  Lord direct my thinking.  Change my heart so that I can see things more clearly.  You have made me able to live properly and to be able to enjoy life.    I want to do this.  Show me the way, and please give me the willingness to follow your way.     

We have another visitor with us this week. It is a pleasure for my family when we can have certain extended family members visit us on our journey. Joan is here with us this week; Catherine's mom. They went on a skipjack yesterday. She is an interesting woman. I think she was probably quite the risk taker when she was younger. I see where my wife gets her free spirit.
We are not sure yet where we are going next. It may be to Virginia again. I called the place I worked at before and they may be interested in me coming for a short term stay; maybe 13 weeks. We want to go someplace on this coast as we are definitely going to Florida again this winter. Plan your vacations now! Let us know when you want to visit. I sort of wish we were going right to Florida from here because the golf would be soooo cheap! Then we could just not play during peak season. I don't care if it's hot. It would be kind of nice to be at the same place from september to may. Or would it? I'm not sure. Well, the one thing we know is that we don't know where we are going. We're getting used to that.
It has been at times difficult to be here in Maryland. I think it's because we are such Bostonians deep down and don't know how to slow down. A part of me really likes the slower pace. I want the slower pace. Another part just keeps saying hurry up! I believe the Lord is doing some good things for my children here. Grace in particular has been really challenged. It's a few months of solace for her. She has met it like a mature person, and I am grateful she can speak to us about the struggles she is having. She is truly a blessing to our whole family. I personally think she's wicked smahht! I ask God to help me listen to her wisdom. I also ask for God to give me patience in dealing with a young adult who thinks she knows everything!! I guess it's true; it's hard to be humble when you're so awesome. This is the case with Grace. She is being run through the fire here in MD. Forced to sit with herself. I hope she comes to the same conclusions that her mother and I have; that she is a wonderful young adult entering gracefully into womanhood. I just hope she has the humilty to see it. WEll I gotta go now. I am tired. It's 4:15 in the morning . Nightshift can get very slow. All my patients are doing well but I must go check on them now.

Annapolis Maryland. I had never been there before. I was impressed with its looks. It was so different. The buildings were all so close together. The doors to peoples' house right there on the street! It reminded me somewhat of parts of Boston. We went to the Kunta Kinte exhibit that is located at the dock where they supposedly brought him in off the boat! When we were leaving, I looked back down the street and it reminded me of the film roots and the way it must have looked back then. I would describe it as a very picturesque place. I think we will visit there again before leaving. The thought didn't escape me that these are fleeting moments with our children. I am grateful to be here with them to enjoy these times. My children; while they can frustrate the heck out of me at times, they are truly a blessing. The day started out pretty wild as we went into the bank to do some banking. Mike wanted to stay in the car. OK I said. Just keep all the doors locked and don't come up front for any reason and we will be right back. Well, can you JUST GUESS what happened. About 6-7 minutes later, in walks Michael. "Hey you guys, I have to go to the bathroom."
"Do you have the keys?"
"No."
"Did you lock the car?"
When I think of how his face looked when asked this question, I can't help but laugh. We weren't laughing at that moment though. He was so frustrated with himself, he grabbed his own head in obvious agitation. Upon further investigation, the tailgate was open and we got in no problem.....phew!! And Michael got to go to the bathroom....pew!
just kidding.
Well then we hit the road for Annapolis. It took a couple of hours. When we got there, we stood at the side of the state house which was one of our destinations. Left or right? I chose right. We arrived at a big door which was locked. As we got there, a torrential downpour started. Michel and Katie were delighted cause they could now get completely soaked! ME? I had memories of my mother running through my head as I nastily said things like," Don't you dare get wet! Why did you do that? Now they won't let us in. We're gonna try and go in and they wont let YOU in!....'cause you're soaked." When did I get old? Regardless of my protestations, Michael and Katie were pretty much thoroughly soaked as we learned we were at a locked back entrance to the statehouse and could not go to the front because it was pouring out! As the rain let up we ran around to the "correct" side, and they even let Michael in as wet as he was. While there, I charged my cell phone in the MD state house foyer because my battery was low. This is the oldest state house still in operation in the country.....I did not know that. There were many interesting exhibits. I'm glad we went. I had fun. We had a wonderful dinner and then went to a souvenir shop or as my wife calls them, "the silva-neer shop. Sometimes we're suckers for these places. Be on the lookout... you may get one.
On the ride home we had many interesting discussions. One thing I can say about my children; they know how to have fun. We started talking about presidents and someone spoke of how Ronald Reagan won 43 states when he ran for president. As we sat in awe thinking of how anyone could win by such a large margin, Katie chimed in," That's pretty pathetic for the OTHER guy!" I personally had a hard time stopping my laughter. It was one of those times when tears start filling your eyes and you wish you could stop laughing because it hurts? It's funny, but that's what I'll remember about the trip to Annapolis most of all; the talks with the children in the car, and at dinner.
Well, we got home just in time to a dog with her legs crossed! She was so excited to see us but it was tempered by her intense need to relieve herself!
So, that was our trip to Annapolis. It was fun and educational. Most of our life is FULL of fun and education, woven together on this journey. We hope the children get a great education from the places we visit. So far it seems to be working.
who needs a desk?

Stay-free ultra-thin, regular with wings!!
What the heck does that have to do with anything?? Well, let me tell ya! I must remember this little mantra that I have created. Stayfree ultra-thin regular with wings. When you repeat it over and over it can be put to a catchy tune. It helped me remember that this is something I must remember for the benefit of all the girls in my household. There was a time I'd probably be too self-conscious to buy these in a store. Now I walk up and down the aisle on this particular day because I am so tired that I don't want to forget. Stayfree ultra-thin regular with wings. Stayfree ultra-thin regular with wings. Stayfree ultra-thin regular with wings! See! I didn't forget! My wife and children are very pleased with my memorization skills. But seriously; it's a good thing to take the time to know what it is they need. There are so many kinds!! A man could get lost! What the heck do they need wings for anyway?? Wings? Come on now. This type of discussion is just so...... unmacho! How do you talk about stayfree ultra-thin regular with wings in a manly kinda way? You just can't say that cool. It reminds me of when the children were still just babes and my wife would have me hold the diaper bag while she did something in a store. Did you ever try and look cool or manly holding a flowery diaper bag!! That is no small feat let me tell you! Or how manly and macho do you think I felt wearing a bunny suit to a Halloween party with my little girl? If you walk just right though you can still seem like a tough guy even in a bunny suit....or so I like to fool myself into thinking. But honestly these are the kinds of things you don't think about before having kids. I am glad to remember what they need at the store because I tell you I have bought the wrong thing more than once. If they have no wings.......forgetabout it! Go back and get the other ones; the ones with the wings! I say all this tongue in cheek because I would never have it any other way. I love my daughters and my wife. It's taken me a while to remember what kind to get but now I got it. In fact, I have to put it in my palm pilot so I can never forget it. Here I have been working hard and buying things for my wife and kids when all I had to do was remember Stayfree ultra-thin regular with wings and they would all think I was a great husband and father because I knew what they needed.
These are the things we talk about at my house; and we laugh and laugh about it all. It is such a pleasure to be a part of my family. My children have a wonderful sense of humor. They make me laugh. Just last night we all were lying in my bed before I came to work for this night shift and were just enjoying each others' company. There is no place I would rather be than with my wife and children. That is a blessing. It seems I run into many men who do their best to get away from the family to have some time alone. It doesn't make sense to me. It's the best place for a husband and father to be. The children will be with us only a short 10 to 20 years and then they will be on their own. It is worth it to spend all the time I can with them now before they move on.... as they should, into the rest of their lives. I am so grateful for all the time I get to spend with them. It will be over too soon. Soon we will wish we could hear them yelling around the house. We will wish there were legos left on the floor to step on in the middle of the night;(boy do they hurt!). I am going to do my best to enjoy it all because you only live once and I want to enjoy them while they are with me. Soon I will have my wife to myself again. We have never lost focus that it is us raising them. And when we are done, then we will have each other back again completely. She is my best friend and I look forward to that day coming. But I will cherish the time I have with all the children because time flies by. I keep telling people I just turned forty, and the fact of the matter is that I turn 41 next month! I leave you with these words of wisdom: Stayfree ultra-thin regular with wings!

I have been working hard and that is a good thing. God has made me able to earn a living so that my family can enjoy the benefits of our traveling life. I am a thankful man today for the family God has given me. The stay here in MD has been very different. We are set apart it seems from the rest of the world. It is so quiet here. Our neighbors have lived here forever! He is a waterman. He gets up at 3 and goes out and crabs all day. The have a lovely house with a nice pool. "Come over anytime, please! Use the pool whenever you want!" His wife says to us. They are extremely friendly! It really is a small place. The bay is beautiful all around us. It has given us opportunity to reflect on life. What is really important to us as a family? It has brought us closer together. We spend all our time together just about. I truly enjoy my children's company; what a blessing! Usually by the time they reach the teen years, there is conflict all the time! We are not experiencing that. Sure we get angry and frustrated with each other, but the Lord is keeping us together in spirit. I think a big part of that is praying for my children daily as well as having a wife who does the same. We try and read the scriptures together each day too. It has been so exciting to see how far Michael has come in his reading. It brings my heart joy to hear him read the word of God out loud to all of us. Grace and Katie are reading at an alarming rate! They definitely read far more than Catherine and I. I cannot keep up with those two! It is a delight.
We made a decision to not get cable TV while we are here. I think I am struggling the most with that decision! I am a self-admitted TV junkie! So now we just watch a DVD here and there but get no stations on the set. The kids seem fine with this. It is me who misses the dumb programs! I think this will benefit them greatly in the long run. I wonder if we can do it at our next assignment also? They are keeping themselves busy. Michael has met a couple of nice kids in the neighborhood. JT comes to the door earlier everyday and knocks on the door. When you open it, he doesn't say hello, or good morning. He only says one word....Michael. I guess we are supposed to know this means could I please see Michael this morning because I would like to play with him today. So now I make him ask for Michael. The other day he comes and we hear a weird bang on the door this time. We open it and it's JT. He is knocking on the door with his head! "What are you doing??"
"Just knocking for Moy-kll", he says with that strange accent of his. The other boy is named Dylan. He seems like a nice kid too. He's a little bigger but seems kind. They ride their bikes all over the roads where we live. It is a very safe neighborhood for sure. It's kinda nice to have a house. I have noticed some real beautiful scenery around town on my ride back and forth to work. I have an urge to pull over and paint certain scenes I see on my way home. Perhaps I will just take a picture here and there. Well, that's all for now.

I had a patient the other day..........
She was a little bitty thing about 5 feet in all. She was as heavy as she was short! Well she started to tell me all about her son. Apparently he is the illegitimate son of JFK! Now this would not be the first time I heard something crazy from one of my patients. I have to take such statements with a grain of salt. I definitely started doubting her mental capacities as I nodded nicely as she spoke. When I left the room, the secretary proceeded to tell me that her son is JFK's love child! She adopted him from a woman who became pregnant from the former president here in MD. She has legal papers about the whole thing! Now I'm shocked. Then another person tells me they saw her picture and her son's in the national enquirer at the checkout stand the other day! Sure enough, the son comes in about 2 hours later with his sister. He had on a pair of puffy red and purple pants to go with his pointy peter pan shoes; I kid you not! I'm thinkin' is this guy for real!! Apparently so. He also has a cape to go with his ensemble. Hanging over his arm is a purple sequined shirt that he did not wear but was just carrying with him; I guess it was an accessory. As his sister proceeded to inform me of how there is a policeman stalking her around town, he is making inappropriate comments to the wall in hopes that I can hear him but not in a way that says he is actually talking to me! I'm thinkin' what is going on here! I'm screaming on the inside because she is talking at such a rapid pace that I am unable to get a word in edgewise. I am unable to leave the room because her stalking story is continuing on ad-infinitum. I am stepping closer and closer to the door, trying to give a hint that I may have some work to do, or hoping the secretary calls my name to save me from this sideshow! Finally....she takes a breath. "I gotta go do some work", I say and dart towards the door. There I got out I'm saying to myself. The secretary looks at me and laughs because she knows I was just caught in the room with no way out; she knows what I just went through because it probably happened to her before. This sweet little lady did the right thing years ago to take in this baby and give him a life, but it is clear to me why it is not public knowledge that he is a Kennedy descendant. I hope he is receiving some type of psychiatric treatment because he is clearly in his own world. He thinks people are out to kill him. As they left I felt badly that I wanted to avoid them. I guess that's a human reaction. Anyways, just wanted to type up this story before I forgot about it because it was extremely weird. It was like I entered the twilight zone. For all we know, he could be the only sane Kennedy left!

I called Chip this morning.
I offered my services if needed at his house today after the funeral and all. He said there were plenty of people going to be around but He has my number and will call if he finds he needs some help. I feel I did what I was supposed to do. I called him. I am thankful that I didn't just think about calling him. It occurred to me on the walk this morning with the dog over in the park, that the fact that we are here and are now able to pray for Chip and his family, is something that would not be happening if we were not in MD. What does that mean? Well, I don't feel that MY prayers are anything special, but I do believe that my God is the only one true God out there who loves his children with an everlasting love. We are all created in HIS image and He loves each of us as His own. Therefore, one of the reasons for us being in MD is to pray for Chip and his family that they could rely on our Creator for strength during this difficult time in their lives. It's not the strength of MY prayers that will help him, it's the ONE I am praying to that will carry him through.

Life is a fragile thing..........
I enjoy being a nurse. I am blessed to be doing something that I love for a vocation. I love developing relationships with my patients, as limited as that relationship may be. I met a man last week that was one of those people that I like. He was a 52 year old man. He had a heart attack and came to our floor so that we could monitor the activity of his heart. He had many visitors during the day. I ended up working ALL day from 7am till midnight! We had quite a few discussions. He was a farmer his whole life and enjoyed being one. It is harvest time right now and I told him that I had no clue what it was like to be farmer. Well, he explained to me what it was like when he was young and how it has changed over the years. He offered for me to bring my children by to the farm and have his son Chip, (whom I had met earlier that day), take us out in the truck they use to harvest. He explained the elaborate computers used in farming these days with alacrity. Well, I was outside his room charting, when I heard him talk to Chip on the phone and telling him how I would be calling him tomorrow to go witness and take part in the harvest. When I talked with my wife on the phone shortly after that, she was equally excited to take part in this wonderful educational event. The next morning, I gave chip a call shortly after 11 as the sun was shining bright, which means they could do some harvesting. "Hey Chip. This is Dan from the hospital? How you doing."
"Well, not too good Dan."
"Oh yeah?"
"Yeah. I'm at the funeral home......Dad passed away this morning."
"Oh my goodness no!"
"Yeah. So we got a lot of stuff to do now, but I want you to call me in a few weeks okay? Cause dad told me you'd be callin and I'd like to take you guys out 'cause it was somethin dad wanted me to do."
"Okay Chip. I'm so sorry. I will pray for you and your family for strength to get through this."
"Thanks. I appreciate that. Don't forget to call me now."
"Alright Chip. Take care".
I hung the phone up and was in a sort of shock. I didn't know what to say! I told Catherine. We sat there in shock. As I write this, I still have a hard time grasping that this man's life is over! Today is Father's day. My heart goes out to Chip and his family on this first fathers day without his dad. I feel a sense of duty now to make sure I call Chip in a few weeks. Lord help me to follow through. I felt a sense from our Creator that this may be part of the reason we are here in MD. That we could in some way be, "God with skin on", for Chip and his family. I asked Catherine if she would be willing to see if there is some way we could be of service to them and she agreed. Perhaps we can help after the funeral? I don't know. Lord use me the way you want in their lives. I am shook up in the bones by this event! Life is so fragile. Help me Lord to live life to the fullest. To remember how fleeting it all is. What I do is left to be seen. I have lots of good intentions, but they mean nothing if not put into action. Lord help me to continue to be open and honest with my children that they can see me for who I truly am.
I saw the obituary on Friday morning. One of the things it said was,"He liked to be with people. If those around him were happy, then he was happy". As someone who met him only for a very long day at work, I would have to agree.

Isn't it a good thing??......peace and quiet?
I enjoy peace and quiet most of the time. It's good for my soul to rest. That is something I need to learn how to do more of.....rest. The Lord calls us to rest in Him. He says to "Take my yoke upon you and you will find rest for your soul." Ah...to rest in Him. I have never had a bad experience trusting in our Lord. He has always come through for me. Being on this journey with my family, I have been able to pray for each of my family members ion the way in to work. It takes a solid half hour to get here and usually flies by as I pray individually for each family member starting with my wife. I have much to be in prayer about not the least of which is spiritual warfare. I claim their protection each day in the name of Jesus. Why?? Because He says you have not, because ye do not ask; so I ask for their protection. WE are at war. It just doesn't seem like it most of the time. I have been able to see the warfare lately. Satan wants to destroy my family. I must surrender to the ONE who will make us a victorious family for the Lord. I have such individual concerns for each of my family members. Each child is so different. It struck me the other day how they each believe that I am always watching out for them and their best interest. The just know this to be true!! This caught me off guard a little as I remember thinking the same thing about my parents towards me. The reality is that we do our best to be there for our children but we are only human and have faults. Only the Lord can be continuously watching over our children. I do my best, but I do it knowing full well that without the Lord, my children would be in big trouble. I can see how He has protected me and my family through the years and that He is continuing to do this for us now. I hope and pray He will guide us towards glory with the loving merciful hand we have come to rely on in my home. We are living a radical lifestyle. It is different and as such, there are fewer people to relate to about it. This is why we need each other even more now. It seems, almost everynight, one of the kids wants to sleep in the same room as one of the other kids. Personally I think this is a wonderful thing. I want to encourage it within reason. They will only be young for a short time and then they will be on their own. Our sphere of influence over them is so limited. Lord give us wisdom as we direct these children/young adults to maturity. I feel more than ever that Catherine and I are in this together and the Lord is in charge. WE do our best to listen to Him and He has been faithful. Lord help us to remain faithful to coming into your presence each day so that You can guide us. I must mention that the one thing that has been constantly on my prayers for each of my children as well as myself has been wisdom. I don't know about anyone else. I only know that I feel so in the dark most of the time. But the Lord has been guiding us anyway. Lord, please continue to make each of us wise so that we can follow your paths of righteousness. Wide is the road that leads to destruction and many go there. Narrow is the road to life and there are few who find it. Someone once said that the joy is in the journey. I believe this to be true, and we are on a wonderful journey together. Thank you Lord that we are living life on the edge.

So........How do you like it here?
This is the question I get asked a lot wherever I go. I have found it refreshing to be honest with my answers to people. I was asked, how did you do when they floated you over to the other hospital? My answer was, " Well, I got off to a rough start. I kinda felt like they were very unhelpful and I was starting to take everything they did personal. I was feeling like I was being dissed by everyone there!" At this point people look at me kinda funny. Then I go on to explain the truth. "But when I enter a new situation, I frequently feel a little nervous so I have realized that I get very sensitive and frequently think people are against me when I am unfamiliar with things. It's like I project my feelings of fear and instead think they are not very nice. Once I realized this, I said some prayers of, OH God help me to mind my business and do my job as I know how to do it. Help me to not listen to my head!" People usually laugh at this honest assessment of things. They probably can identify. I guess I've learned over time that God has made me a good nurse who is completely imperfect and still has a lot to learn. I think one of my biggest strengths is that I know how limited my knowledge of things really is. This might not sound like an asset but I think it is. I would not dream of attempting to do something to one of my patients that I was not sure what I was doing. This is wise; humbling at times but wise. Well, this was just a short little quip of what it's like to be a traveler; to be myself in this world. Blessed beyond human reason, and glad for it. I am a grateful man.

I would be remiss to not mention something that happened here in Maryland shortly after our arrival. My wife and children took a road trip to Massachusetts for a week a few days after getting settled. I was left to myself for my hospital orientation. I had too much free time on my hands. I get very lonely without my family and wish to spend most of my time with them as they are truly Gods greatest gift to me that constantly displays His love for me in a concrete way. One day I decided to go golfing. I love to golf but going alone is usually kind of strange as there is no one to share the game with. I just know that IF I ever get a hole in one, I'll probably be alone!! No one will believe me!! Anyways, I joined up with another single golfer on the second hole of play. It was nice to meet up with someone else who also was looking for company as he also was away from his wife and trying to get a game of golf in before meeting up with some friends further away that night. As happens often in golf, we engaged in some pleasant conversation. It turns out he is a retired military man of good stature. WE chatted quite a bit about current events and seemed to both be coming from the same point of view. He thought it a wonderful thing to be home-educating our children and actively training them to be productive members of society. Around the 15th hole it was evident to me that he knew my savior Jesus on a first name basis. This brought great pleasure to me as I felt a real connection to a brother in the Lord. I needed that because of my family being away. After the round we had a soda together and shared a fantastic conversation that was basically focused on how good our God is! He had nothing but positive things to say about how the Lord had turned his life around. To make this all sound biblical, I would say we mutually edified each other. I expressed to him how wonderful it was of our Creator to put 2 of his children together on the course so they could boast of is greatness in each of their lives; what a blessing! Isn't that just like God? Only he could have done such a thing. Mere coincidence?? I think not; just God remaining anonymous once again. We can't actually prove it was HIM who brought us together, but there's nobody out there who can prove to me otherwise. Thank you Lord for sending me a cool glass of water during a dry spell away from my family...

Why Maryland???................................. This I do not know.
I will say that it seems to be not so much for my own well being but for my wife. I am kind of lost out here in the middle of nowhere, and perhaps that will benefit me in the long run. I could use some peace and quiet. There is plenty of that to go around, but I have found that I am also very good at creating my own noise to drown out the silence. It makes me uncomfortable at times to be quiet. I need the Lords help with enjoying the peace in my life. Catherine seems to be getting some real peace in her heart from being here even though it's only been a couple of weeks. The first day here she was walking around the neighborhood and called me on the phone in awe of the beauty of the area and its scenery. It does my heart good to hear such praise coming from my woman's mouth. It truly is a blessing to me when she is filled with the spirit. I am a grateful man when my wife is at peace. That is all for now......

Now that I am in Maryland, I look back on Florida fondly. It was a wonderful way to spend a winter. WE met some nice people there and I have a general sense that God used us there in the lives of others as well as using others in our lives as well for mutual friendships. I thank God for the time we had there and look forward to going there again.
WE are staying at a house now in tilghman Maryland. We are literally walking distance on both sides of our house to the Chesapeake bay! It is so different being here! There are not many people around. I feel the need to get connected somehow and feel that AA will be that connection for us while we are here as opposed to some type of church gathering. The people in AA are people just like us in many ways. They understand how Catherine and I tick. We have a nice place to live, but I am still unsure how I feel about it. It is so quiet! In some ways I want a quiet lifestyle, but in another way, I don't know what to do with myself! The Lord will direct our steps. I just need to trust Him. I seem to be saying that more and more lately.....just trust Him. Think he may be trying to tell me something? I am currently at my work at 5am in the morning! I think I will be ok doing some nights and some days. AS long as I stay disciplined with my time.

Florida here we come.
It was a strange thought to live in Florida for the winter but one we welcomed for the heat. We have never had a warm winter. We were born and raised in Massachusetts. We have sold almost all our property and moved to Florida for a 5 month assignment with no permanent address. My pops is letting us call his condo home so that we can have some type of address. We are currently doing almost all our banking and bill paying online so we should get minimal if any mail there. We are appreciative of him and Susie letting that be our address. I only hope it causes him no inconveniences. Anyway, we will live wherever we work. This has been a wonderful assignment for us. It is coming to a close and my writing is catching up to the actual time of the experiences we have. As I had mentioned in an earlier post, we were called on the way here by a brother named Kent. He hooked us up with a family out here named the Mcguires. We have enjoyed much fellowship with them from the time of our arrival. We spent quite a few hours at a campfire in their backyard that was truly a blessing. We just got to know each other. They have two adopted children and three children who are full grown and living on their own. Josiah being the youngest of these older three is planning on marriage to a girl he recently met and has been courting. We wish we could stay and attend his wedding but we will not be here then. They met in a god-ordained way and have kept themselves pure. It is truly an example to us. The one thing that sticks out to me is when they arrived late to our house when we had everyone over for dinner, and I walked by them at the table and noticed them holding hands next to their plates. I "assumed" they were going to give thanks so I said, "Oh, do you want to pray?" Josiah looked at me and said OK! SO I did. But they didn't let go of each others hands when I finished. Then they STILL didn't let go of each others hands. Then I realized that they were not about to pray but that they are just excited to be with each other and hold each others hands all the time!!! I felt so foolish! My daughter Grace witnessed the whole thing and tells me the story while she laughs at my expense...
Well, anyways, Pete's wife is Chello, but she doesn't play the chello. He does however play the chello. Pete is a musician in his heart as well as a construction worker who now builds homes for a living. They have shown absolutely no hesitation in opening up their lives to us like an open book. They are an example of what brothers and sisters in the Lord are supposed to be. Perhaps they have felt some reservations in welcoming us into their lives but they have not shown it. As I told Chello last night, they have been God with skin on for me and my family. As far as I am concerned they have loved us with the love of the Lord. Thank you Mcguires and thank you Lord.

Before I get to Florida, I must wrap up Virginia. It was such a pleasure to be there and to work with so many different people. I would be remiss to not at least mention so many others who were so much fun to work with. Thellon.....she was gellin!!......like a fellon. All I had to do was look at her and she would start laughing! I am not sure that is a compliment but I take it as such. Penelope pitstop as I called her. She went by Penny, but we had some fun times together also. She is a person with a wonderful sense of humor. I could tell just from working with her that she was in love with her husband and lived a contented life. Marty the night nurse. She seemed to rub some of the day people the wrong way, but I got along well with her. In fact, the Lord used her in a gentle way with me. She was always very helpful and kind to me and taught me some nursing skills that I did not have before meeting her. There were quite a few aides who were very kind, as well as those pesky housekeepers. I particularly remember when I was kinda new and I went up to the housekeeper and asked her to enter an order for me on the computer because I thought she was the secretary! She gave me a look that could kill! "Why don't you go mop up that room for me then!!" She was a funny lady. Keith was a good man to work with also. He would do whatever I asked, as long as I could find him!! Many times he was off the floor gone to get the lottery tickets of the day for him and Mamma Diggs. All of them were very friendly to me. I don't recall anyone not being friendly towards me while I was there. I'll not soon forget Virginia and the relationships that were built there at my job are one of the reasons this is true.

F-L-O-R-I-DA!!!!! Here we come. I was pretty excited about the idea of coming to FL for the winter. I had no idea what we were getting in to down here but we came anyway. There were some things we learned from our time in Virginia. We knew we had to get connected to other believers right away to have some fellowship. We didn't want to go to an institution to worship our Lord so we had done some investigating on the web; or should I say my wife did the investigating. Well, on our way down, we stopped in Virginia and were blessed once again by the Coons family. Gordon and Jimmie-Lou with their daughter Molly were there to greet us and take us in for 2 days because of troubles getting our uhaul hooked up to the van and loaded with our stuff from the storage bin in VA where we left half our stuff. God sometimes meets you in places. We just don't recognize him when we see him at times. God provides for his children mostly......through His other children! There's an old analogy that I though of once a long time ago during my early days in AA. I made the coffee for our BIG Monday night meeting. 2 big pots plus hot water. It was a chore. While people were grateful for the coffee and often thanked us for making it, no one ever talked about the coffee making machine. Many said, "good coffee!" Not one said, "good coffee machine". I say this to make my point. God is the coffee and we are to be the coffee machines if you will. We want people going away from contacts with us saying, boy their God is a good God!! We don't want them to walk away thinking about us, but thinking about Him who flows through us.....the living water. Jimmie-Lou and Gordon are the coffee machine of this story. They project to me also that they are happy to remain that too; the coffee machine. I sense no desire from them to be noticed for the many many good deeds they do for others. I must make mention here that I lived with them for a month in the trailer next to their house at no cost. All I had to do was enjoy some home-cooked meals whenever I wanted to!; it was great! It certainly helped during my absence from my family. They helped me through many difficulties I had and were a great encouragement in how God cares for His children. When I think of them, I think of how it is a good thing to trust in my Creator,and my Lord Jesus. He will never let me down.
Well, back to our trek to Florida. As I was saying we wanted to get connected early to the Lords people in FL and wouldn't you know, that on the way down we got a phone call in the car ride from a man named Kent who lived in...........you guessed it FLA.

Going to Virginia was our first leap into the world of travel nursing. I was quite nervous about the whole thing. We left our house in MA in the hands of a friend. We made him an offer to stay there at our house for a very minimal fee. All we asked was that he care for our place while we were gone and take good care of things. Well, this is not what happened. To keep an unpleasant memory brief, our house was in ruins when we got back. It cost us over 2000 dollars conservatively to fix all the hurt done to our house. We were left with the personal struggle of why. Why would a brother in the Lord do such a thing to us? We were of service to him in letting him stay there for such a modest cost and yet he trashed my home. It brought my wife to tears and me to several pity parties thrown in my own favor. I felt it was my fault for trusting him. When all is said and done, the Lord made it clear to me that we did the right thing to offer to him to stay there. He is the one who did the wrong thing. The Lord calls us to forgive. It really sticks in my craw to forgive someone who acts as if they don't even need forgiveness. Jesus is our example of true forgiveness. It was a very hurtful thing that was done to me and my family. Why would my loving Father allow it to happen to us? I believe that question is still not fully answered. I do have some ideas though. I remember early on how God was gently showing me that the way he was treating my house is a sign of how I treat this body he has given me. It is a gift from God and I tend to misuse it. I feel that I am a better man now that the Lord has carried me through an abuse from a brother. He has brought me to the side of forgiveness. I have set him free of his debt to me. The repercussions of how we behaved while this happened and after it happened will have an affect on the children and how they deal with others in the future. The full story is not yet written......this is what the Lord says to me; I am in control. Mind your business. Love one another and forgive those who harm you. God has richly blessed us and I have much to be grateful for each day. When I think back on the whole ugly mess, I feel sadness for him. He harmed me and my wife and my children with his selfish acts. I have responded in kindness and love. What is the price to teach that type of lesson to your children? God continues to rain down blessings upon us. I pray for him whenever I think about him. I hope and pray that my children learn to always respond in love towards others. That although some people will hurt you in life, do not let it skew your attitude towards others. Shake the dust off your feet and press forward.....loving one another; just loving one another.

There are so many experiences that happened to me at Maryview hospital that will cause me to always remember it fondly. It was definitely a rough hospital as far as the amenities go. Most of the rooms were 2 people per room. Supplies were tough to get at times. Weekends were frequently shortstaffed, Sometimes you would have pts. all over the floor as opposed to right together. Those however are not the things I remember. I remember the culture difference from anything I was used to. I remember the people I worked a lot with. People like Keith, Ricky, Joyce, Demetria the secretary who gave me flack everyday in a playful way. She called me Moo-laanney!! It was a joy to work with them. They have taught and continue to teach me as I remember them in my thoughts how people go through life with such different viewpoints. Cultures are so different even here in the same country. I must say that I was a little concerned that I would discover that the gospel would not hold water when placed against the differing cultures of the world. Well, so far it has. Though all people are different, we all struggle with different individual personal struggles. For some it's food, others sex, or temper, or attitude. Whatever our struggles we all seem to have something that is a thorn in the flesh. One of my spiritual mentors who died the year I was born is a man named Samuel Shoemaker, an old minister. He made a statement that I believe to be true and have quoted to others on many occasions. "We are all some kind of weakling, and those who think they are not, pride is their weakness, and that is the worst of all."
The "customers" as the patients are sometimes called in this world of political correctness, were mostly black women as I recall. I loved them! Though we are all different as are they, it seemed they all had things in common. It may be because the hospital is in Portsmouth which is the poor part of VA. Most of the patients were lifelong residents of this poor town. Almost all of the older black women whom I had the pleasure of serving had wonderful things to say about God. I frequently felt the Lord urge me to ask them if God can be trusted to watch out for me as I grow older in this life. Each of them told me a different story with the same conclusions. "God is good......ALL THE TIME!! I would listen to them and you could sense the intense persecution they had endured simply because they were black AND they were women. Yet they all said things like," God has been good to me! HE is a good God! HE ain't NEVER let me down....No sir!!" Many of the men patients I had echoed the same sentiments of how Good God is. The openness with which they speak of Gods goodness was unheard of where I come from in Massachusetts. No way you could talk about God that way at work!! Here I was in VA and it was the pts. bringing up the Lord with me! Many times was I able to pray for my patients. They were so open to receiving prayer for their illnesses. People did not put on heirs in this hospital. I really loved that about Maryview. That is what sticks out to me the most. That I could be of service in the spiritual sense to my patients AND their families! I am the blessed one for being there. The joy is in the journey someone once said. I am a grateful man. I am doing my best to live in that joy. I have no final destination here on earth. The joy of the Lord is my strength. That is a scripture verse that the lord has written on my heart. I wonder if there is some type of interwoven connection there with that word joy? The Lord has us on a journey. I get excited when I grasp the reality that I am living life on the edge. We are living out our heart's desire to see the world. God is going before us and we are living life! Thank you Lord.

I was working at Maryview for only a day or two when I was cutting through the kitchen one day and was met by one of the nurses aides who stopped me dead in my tracks and said," Are you a Christian??" Yes I am I told her. She then proceeded to tell me that she knew I was. I asked her how she knew. "I could just feeeeeel the spirit movin between us!" Vera was her name. She was a blessing to meet also. I always felt the presence of our lord when she was there. She would get discouraged at times about being there as an aide because she felt God wanted her to do something more important than what she was doing. I remember when my fingers got squished in the big metal door and the pain I felt. I sought her out and when I found her I said,"Go ahead". She gave me a strange look but soon knew what I was talking about. She prayed right there in the room for God to heal my hand and not allow any permanent damage to come to it. As far as this man is concerned Vera was working right where she needed to be. She was a blessing to me. I am thankful that Vera was an aide at the hospital that God put me in.

While it has been quite a while since I blogged, the topic is still VA. Next I will talk of Aris. This woman was a quiet spirit when I met her. She said "My name is Aris....like Paris but without the P". She didn't speak much to me but she was always cordial. Over time it was evident that we were of the same faith. She spoke of her early life church family and how she missed them. She clearly does her best to follow our lord. One day I brought my wife in to meet my fellow employees. Afterwards, she said to me," That Aris woman is strikingly beautiful"! I had never really noticed. Her hair was very tight to her scalp and very different than anyone I had ever known. After my wife said that, then it was clear that yes she was a beautiful woman. The last couple of months I was there, I started eating low-carb with much success. Little did I know that so was Aris! We became an encouragement to one another in following the Lord and allowing him to direct our eating styles and habits. It was a blessing. It was God's way of telling me that He was with me. So often I think we do not realize how we ourselves are instruments of god's blessing to one another. Just our presence is a sign to some people that God truly loves them and is watching over them. Aris was this kind of blessing to me. She spoke words of encouragement to me that caused me to blush on more than one occasion. "Don't you ever change Dan. You keep loving your wife and family. You are what a man is supposed to be. You are a Godly man" Perhaps she didn't even use these words but this is the message I received from her all the time. What an encouragement.